illigitimus non carborundum (i.e. Don’t let the bastards get you down.)
Lots of people reach out to me. Between my books, my blog and my big mouth I guess sorta invite it. And I gotta say, I like when people rant because venting allows people to blow off steam that – left unblown – often proves to be like lurking toxins in the engine of our careers and lives.
I got just such a rant the other. A smart person who had been pushed a bit over the brink the the inanity and tomfoolery of this world. (And who hasn’t been in that category, right?) This person got to me at just the right time, too, because I was a good emotional place. So instead of throwing logs on the fire of their raging soul I instead typed up a short, somewhat level-headed response.
I am gonna share a version of it right now. But before I do, please don’t expect me to always live it. I swear I’ll try, but, what’s that old religious saw? Oh yeah, the flesh is weak.
Illigitimus non carborundum. (i.e. Don’t let the bastards get you down.) I think that’s the moral of the story you just told me. There are so many things one can’t control in the life of being a teacher that we often forget to focus on that which we can.
Your own quality. Your own sense of professionalism. Your own work ethic and diligence and joie de vivre… spend you energy in those arenas and you will have spent it well. Real kids matter. The shenanigans of colleagues and admins… not as much.
BTW, I wish someone would have told me this stuff years ago… wouldda saved a lot of heavy days in my heart and gray hairs on my head. If I wouldda listened that is. But me, I spent many days seeing my educational problems as if they were nails while I was a teacher holding a hammer.
That outlook leads to lots of pounding. Length in the teeth has taught me there are other tools, too.
Teachers are demoralized these days. If today you can hoist the spirit of a peer you will have done the world of schooling good.


So since I am in the mood to offer up so many thoughts as of late about how to re-shape K-12 education (heck, who isn’t doing it these days) I thought I’d chime in on the silliness of the manner by which we choose to pink slip 194 teachers in a district with about 900 educators.
I just witnessed a group of teens and young adults who said, with a straight face and all the seriousness in their heart that they could muster, that if they did not figure out a way to improve over their performance of last year, they’d be toast. They knew they needed to grow, adapt, change, evolve and break new ground… for if they didn’t, they knew someone else, with more hunger in the belly, would come along and take from them their, well… everything. Their future, their ability to earn a prosperous living , and so on.
I have a love/hate relationship with Open House. I initially hate it because I will have left my house about 6:00 am and not returned home til about 9:00 pm. Trust me, that gets old quick. On the other hand, seeing my kids without their “student” masks on is always insightful and heartwarming. I forget just how adult so many of my students must be. They care for younger siblings, interpret English for their non-English speaking parents and carry the dreams of their family’s deepest aspirations for success in America with them as they try to navigate me assigning them “Dissect the theme of ________ in a well-written essay” for homework many, many times a year.