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NFL Rookie Camp… it’s so, so smart. Society… not so much.

Posted on June 29, 2010 at 5:30 AM by Alan Sitomer

I was at a hotel in Carlsbad, CA on Sunday and aside from amazing weather and really good food, there was something else notable in the air.

NFL Rookie Camp. A mandatory seminar for all NFL rookies.

I saw scores of stud football players just lounging around. (Their workday began Monday… Sunday was check in.)

No need for me to name drop because, truth is, none of these guys have done one darn thing in the world of professional sports… yet. Though a few of them are already multi-millionaires based on their college exploits, draft status and so on, the land of NFL dreams, stardom and so on had not yet hit in full stride in their lives.

But it was cool to see.

And why does the NFL have a Rookie Camp? It’s for the “life” side of being an NFL player. This had nothing to do with weights, 40 yard dash times, 225 lb. reps or any of that. This was where the NFL put all of its rookies through mandatory session on life skills such as…

  • managing your money
  • watching out for gold diggers
  • gambling protocol
  • talking to the media
  • getting ahold of counseling services for drugs, emotional/psychological issues

… stuff like that.

I saw scores of beefy, idolized young men on their way to having a variety of mentors illuminate for them the traps and pitfalls of becoming a professional athlete.

Now, for the NFL, this makes good business sense. Fans pay big money for Super Bowl tix, jerseys, season passes and luxury boxes. Matter of fact, as a tv franchise, the NFL seems immune to any sort of recession whatsoever. Football has always been big yet these days, it’s bigger than ever.

And keeping its players out of the news for jail, arrests, drugs, battery and so on, well, it’s good for the health of the industry. Billionaires know this, which is why they spend a few million teaching these kids some stuff.

Now do the kids learn it? Not all of them. No. But I got to speak to a few and could see that the gravity of what was upon them was already beginning to reframe their thinking.

It got me thinking, what if we put all our young men in this country through some sort of “mentorship” program that was mandatory? A place where they’d get a taste of Scared Straight mixed in with a few “watch out for this pitfall” chats complemented by a “Call this phone number if __X__ happens” and so on.

Would it not make good sense for society? Fiscally, morally, and so on, so may of our young men are just cast adrift and when I looked at how these coddled college athletes were being hand-held all the way through to the doorway of adulthood it made me realize that 1) those that do end up on the police blotters have got to be real klonk-heads because the NFL is going all out in its own way (even if it is just to protect their own investment) and 2) if society showed as much smarts about shepherding ALL young men from boyhood to manhood in a more overt, direct and thoughtfully guided manner, our entire nation would be better served.

NFL Rookie Camp… it’s so, so smart. Society… not so much.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=528913709 Nicole Willis

    I submit that that the name of the mentorship program should be PARENTING. One of my former students attended this “rookie camp” for the NFL a few years ago. He has exceptional parents and other than the gambling protocol part…the rest was relatively moot for him as his strong foundation was in place before arrival. This should be the same for all kids, unfortunately we know that's not the case…It's great to have a mentor outside of your immediate parents—Heaven only knows that I have seen any number of kids blossom as a result…but the sad thing is that often they are kids who don't have the family support. As teachers, we often are “called to the carpet” for any number of things that “little darling” did or did not do, many of which are non-curricular related… I went through a situation this past year where a young man could never do any wrong in his parents' eyes… he was D-ing out in classes…not his fault…it is ours… he was doing random squirrelly things (like taking his pants off in class)…not his fault…we just didn't recognize he was a “free spirit”… This is the story over and over and over across America (surely it's not so different in California from North Carolina)…kids without boundaries set at home by parents or lacking parents altogether… raised by TV, video games, social networking, and popular media's standards–in the “I want my kids to see me as their friend and to think I'm cool” parenting generation. We SHOULD have a mentoring program…The REBIRTH OF PARENTING!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=528913709 Nicole Willis

    I submit that that the name of the mentorship program should be PARENTING. One of my former students attended this “rookie camp” for the NFL a few years ago. He has exceptional parents and other than the gambling protocol part…the rest was relatively moot for him as his strong foundation was in place before arrival. This should be the same for all kids, unfortunately we know that’s not the case…It’s great to have a mentor outside of your immediate parents—Heaven only knows that I have seen any number of kids blossom as a result…but the sad thing is that often they are kids who don’t have the family support. As teachers, we often are “called to the carpet” for any number of things that “little darling” did or did not do, many of which are non-curricular related… I went through a situation this past year where a young man could never do any wrong in his parents’ eyes… he was D-ing out in classes…not his fault…it is ours… he was doing random squirrelly things (like taking his pants off in class)…not his fault…we just didn’t recognize he was a “free spirit”… This is the story over and over and over across America (surely it’s not so different in California from North Carolina)…kids without boundaries set at home by parents or lacking parents altogether… raised by TV, video games, social networking, and popular media’s standards–in the “I want my kids to see me as their friend and to think I’m cool” parenting generation. We SHOULD have a mentoring program…The REBIRTH OF PARENTING!!

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